Do I Have Anxiety, Depression or Both?

Feeling low, on edge, restless, or withdrawn? You might be asking yourself: is this anxiety, depression, or some mix of the two? These experiences often overlap, which can make it difficult to pinpoint what you’re really feeling. But understanding the crossover brings you one step closer to the right kind of support.

Symptoms of anxiety disorders depression aren’t always obvious. They can show up in the background: changes in sleep, being more irritable with people you care about, or feeling flat when doing something you used to enjoy.

Noticing these patterns earlier can make it easier to access the right kind of help and give you more say in how things unfold.

Why can symptoms be hard to recognise?

Many people live with anxiety or depression for years without realising it. The signs often blend into normal life. You might put it down to being tired, stressed, or just going through a phase. It’s easy to get used to these feelings, especially when they aren’t constant.

Symptoms of anxiety disorders depression also build gradually. You might stop making plans or start avoiding things that used to feel manageable. Without naming it, you adapt to discomfort. Therapy helps you pause, take stock, and see what’s changed in a way that’s grounded and supportive.

What are some common symptoms of anxiety?

Anxiety tends to bring both physical and mental restlessness. People often describe racing thoughts, difficulty relaxing, and a feeling of internal tension. Sleep gets lighter or broken. You might feel keyed up but too tired to do much.

Some people describe their thoughts as ‘noisy,’ or notice that simple tasks start to feel more effortful. Appetite might shift. Decisions, even small ones, take longer. These symptoms of anxiety disorders depression can start to affect how you work, connect, and rest often before you fully notice it.

What are some common signs of depression?

Depression often shows itself in daily routines. You might still go to work or respond to texts, but inside, feel emotionally muted or distant from things that once mattered.

Tasks drag. Energy drops. You might stop replying to messages not from disinterest but because even that feels too much. Conversations feel harder to follow. Memory slips. You might get irritable more easily or feel flat even during positive moments.

Recognising the symptoms of anxiety disorders depression involves noticing what’s missing, too connection, energy, and the sense of feeling like yourself.

Can someone have anxiety and depression at the same time?

Yes. It’s quite common for people to experience both together. You might feel wired and tired, or restless but stuck.

Research shows that around 60% of people with anxiety also have symptoms of depression, and vice versa (National Institute of Mental Health). It’s known as comorbidity, and it helps explain why some people feel emotionally pulled in different directions at once.

This kind of experience can be confusing and draining, but it’s something therapy is designed to help with. The aim is not to label you but to make space for what’s been happening and find ways forward.

How can anxiety and depression affect everyday life?

Often the signs show up in what changes slowly: you stop reaching out to friends, start sleeping at odd hours, or feel wiped out after errands. Conversations might blur. Decisions feel like too much.

At Choose Therapy, clients often talk about the mental push-and-pull: part of them wants to stay busy, the other part wants to stop trying. That kind of split can be exhausting.

Both anxiety and depression affect your brain’s ability to focus, plan, and regulate emotions (American Psychological Association). That’s why things that once felt manageable emails, cooking, making plans can suddenly feel harder to face.

Spotting symptoms of anxiety disorders depression early makes it easier to find steady, personalised support.

What if I don’t know how to describe what I feel?

You don’t need perfect words to start therapy. Feeling unlike yourself, emotionally flat, or unsure what’s wrong is more than enough to begin.

At Choose Therapy, your first session is about understanding not judgement. Your therapist will help you explore your experience and identify what might help. There’s no pressure to be ‘ready’ just willing to start.

When should someone seek help for anxiety or depression?

If your days feel heavier, slower, or more effortful than they used to, that’s a good time to speak to someone. Support is there to help you understand what’s going on before things get harder.

Choose Therapy offers low-cost, accessible therapy, including a £20 online assessment session. You can talk to a professional, ask questions, and decide what comes next without pressure.

The earlier you recognise symptoms of anxiety disorders depression, the more space you must move forward at your own pace.

What kind of therapy helps with anxiety and depression?

At Choose Therapy, we use a tailored approach. That often includes aspects of person-centred therapy, CBT, and psychodynamic work, depending on what feels most useful for you.

Some people start with practical tools. Others need to process emotions or talk through longstanding patterns. Your therapist will guide you through those decisions not from a script, but from professional experience and with your input.

Clinical studies show that people often experience meaningful shifts within 6 to 12 sessions, especially when therapy is adapted to suit their unique experiences (NHS/NICE guidance).

You’ll be able to check in regularly with your therapist, making sure sessions continue to feel useful and relevant.

How to begin with Choose Therapy

Starting therapy doesn’t have to be complicated. We offer a 25-minute online assessment session for £20. You’ll meet with a therapist, talk about what’s been going on, and explore the next steps.

No need to prepare anything. No expectations. Just show up. We’ll meet you with care, professionalism, and calm.

If you’ve recognised symptoms of anxiety disorders depression in your daily life, it might be time to talk. Book your initial assessment with Choose Therapy today.